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Questions To Prepare Yourself For During the Divorce Settlement

Divorce Attorneys in Orange County; The Maggio Law Firm, Inc.Many people think that a divorce is going to resolve all their troubles. But deciding on a divorce is extremely difficult. No one wants their marriage to end this way. But certain circumstances and incidents make it an inevitable choice.

The most common dilemmas that affect every divorcing couple are as follows.

  • The couple wants a divorce but is not sure if it is the appropriate decision.
  • One of them does not want the divorce but the other person wants it.
  • The couple believes that a divorce is the only solution because the marriage is not working.

Whatever the dilemma is, if any couple is actually contemplating a divorce they should ask themselves several questions during the divorce settlement.

Was it a real marriage?

Most of the time a marriage may not have a real meaning for the people involved in it. They get married because they want to get married and have children, and mostly because it is the right thing to do. Some people have a marriage of convenience. Perhaps there were no emotions attached. May be there was never a ‘we’.  In such a case, you should get divorced.

Do you still love your spouse?

Many people can still very much be in love with their spouses but due to some ego problems or continuous disagreements, they feel like they have got no love left for their partners. They have lost that bond, that intimacy and that closeness. If it is something like this then you should not consider a divorce. You should talk things out and try to make the marriage work.

Do you really want a divorce or is it just a threat?

During a heated argument either of you may uttered the word ‘divorce’. But it does not mean that you really meant it. You should let yourselves calm down and think if that is indeed what you want. You may have said it out of frustration because the marriage is no longer working.

Can you handle the consequences of a divorce?

Divorce brings about emotional and financial difficulties and instabilities. You will have to handle things in a responsible and mature way. You will have to take control of your life.

If you can answer all these questions without hesitation, you are ready for end your marriage and finalized your divorce.

Getting divorced in California can be complicated.  Download our free eBook, 18 Important Things to Know About California Divorce to educate yourself on the process.

divorce_attorneyGerald A. Maggio is an experienced Orange County divorce and family law lawyer and family law attorney located in Irvine, California, serving the Orange County and Riverside areas. Mr. Maggio assists clients with legal issues including divorce, legal separation, divorce mediation, child custody, prenuptial agreements, stepparent adoptions, and other family law issues. Mr. Maggio has practiced law in California since 1999, and founded The Maggio Law Firm in 2005, focusing exclusively on divorce and family law matters.



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