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How To Reconcile Your Marriage After A Separation

You could be separated from your spouse for several months or years. But finally, the time has come to get back together once again. It is likely that you did not even hope that such a day will come in your life. Both of you have learned ways of effective communication, discussed what should be done for your mutual benefit from your relationship going forward and finally, you plan to get back together.

However, does your story end here? In real life, both of you need to take several steps to ensure the success of your marriage reconciliation. The following are some of the important points to keep in your mind to ensure a successful reconciliation after separation.

Do not allow anyone to force you into reconciling

You and your spouse should be the only two people who should be bothered about reconciliation. Your family and friends should be kept out of the entire affair. You need to ensure that it is your decision and not anyone else’s when you desire for a marriage reconciliation. It is time to give some serious thought, grieve your earlier relationship and make sure that no one else is compelling you to reunite.

Do not be in a hurry

Simply because you have taken a call on reconciling does not signify you will get back to your earlier married life. You should consider your decision to reconcile as a fresh relationship.

It also indicates that both of you should follow the same set of steps like a couple who got into a new relationship. So, time for you and your spouse to get familiar with each other at a completely different level. After both of you have dated each other for some time, you may move back together and start living like wife and husband.

Do not break the news to anyone else until it is essential

There will be always many people around you who will love to share their unwanted opinions about your private and personal relationship. In case the same thing is done by your family and friends, it is better to keep the news of your marital reconciliation private till the time you are certain of it. The sudden news of your reconciliation may baffle your kids and other family members, especially when you are not sure of staying together yet. It hardly makes sense to let your family go through another round of separation when you are just toying with the idea of reuniting.

All third parties should be removed from your relationship

If you separated due to an act of betrayal in your marriage, the third person should be removed from your life as soon as possible, particularly when you are reuniting with your spouse. It also means blocking them on social media and removing their names from your mobile phone.

Getting divorced in California can be complicated.  Download our free eBook, 18 Important Things to Know About California Divorce to educate yourself on the process.  

divorce_attorneyGerald A. Maggio is an experienced Orange County divorce and family law lawyer and family law attorney located in Irvine, California, serving the Orange County and Riverside areas. Mr. Maggio assists clients with legal issues including divorce, legal separation, divorce mediation, child custody, prenuptial agreements, stepparent adoptions, and other family law issues. Mr. Maggio has practiced law in California since 1999, and founded The Maggio Law Firm in 2005, focusing exclusively on divorce and family law matters.

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