Protecting Your Privacy During Divorce
Going through a divorce is hard for a variety of reasons. One that many don’t consider until they’re in the midst of a difficult situation is that you can have very little control over your privacy. News of a divorce tends to spread quickly and those going through divorce frequently find themselves on the uncomfortable side of difficult, intrusive questions about their personal life. You do have the right to keep your private life private and if this is a priority for you, it’s best to actively seek privacy during the divorce process.
If you are going through a divorce, keep in mind that anything you write, tweet, text, email, etc. could be read in front of a judge. In fact, it’s safest to assume that anything you put online could potentially be accessed by your spouse even if it is protected by a password and not available to the public. But if you value your privacy, here are a few tips.
- Change your passwords and security questions regularly for bank accounts, emails and other online accounts.
- Strengthen security settings on networking sites. Set your security preferences to private and run through your friends lists removing anyone who may provide your ex with access to your account.
- Don’t email anything you don’t want your spouse or ex to read. You can actually be ordered by the judge to keep your emails. They can be used as evidence.
- Delete any questionable content. If there is anything online attached to you that holds the possibility of portraying you in a negative light, delete it immediately. This can be anything from photos, messages from friends, updates, or comments you made on other people’s accounts.
In todays’ world of digital social networking, the mass amount of information out there can serve as a veritable treasure trove of evidence in cases where one or both parties are seeking to malign the other. Everything that is put online can come back to haunt you in a divorce or custody battle. If you are filing for divorce or going through divorce and you are worried about preserving your privacy, think twice before posting anything online or sending anything digitally.
If you need help filing for divorce or if you have questions about how to prepare for a child custody battle, please get in touch with one of the experienced California family law attorneys at The Maggio Law Firm today.