Domestic Violence Victims Should Seek Legal Help in Riverside County

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Every week police are called to homes where spouses and children are affected by domestic violence. Alternatives to Domestic Violence in Riverside County has seen an increase of victims throughout the state, a need for more donations for their emergency shelter, and kids and spouse’s whose lives are at risk. Their crisis line has received up to 7,000 calls a year from people needing help.

October is Domestic Violence prevention month and reminds us as a society that we need to be mindful of the millions of women and men who suffer physical and emotional pain from their intimate partner. Riverside has many resources to help domestic violence victims and perpetrators get back on the path to better life.

Alternatives to Domestic Violence, for example, runs the Casa de Paz shelter where victims can have a short-term, stable living environment and get counseling and education services. If a person and their child do not actively seek help and legal action, the domestic violence can turn deadly. Emotional, physical, and other types of abuse often lead to more aggressive forms of abuse. The CDC’s Violence Prevention campaign says that many of the perpetrators have a substance abuse history, carry a weapon, and have a mental health issue.

A person can initiate divorce proceedings when this is the best course of action to cut ties with the perpetrator. At the same time, individuals can request a restraining order, ask for custody and child support, and discuss concerns about visitations with the child. California courts want to protect the child and spouse from any further harm.

If mediation is ordered by the judge, a spouse can take a support person with them to be there as the child custody and other matters are decided with the ex. In cases where a person does not feel safe, an individual can ask to speak with the mediator separately so that the issues with the abusive ex do not halt the proceedings.

The courts will want the perpetrator to undergo counseling to improve their behavior. Perpetrators must comply with the court orders to be able to have monitored visitation or custody in the future. Victims should get legal representation to assist with their divorce and family law matters. Riverside County family law attorney Gerald Maggio is a strong ally for a spouse and their children with domestic violence concerns.

Gerald A. Maggio is an Irvine and Riverside County divorce attorney.  To learn more about Riverside County divorce lawyer, Gerald A. Maggio, visit Maggiolawfirm.com or call (949) 553-0304.

High Levels of Domestic Violence and Divorce in California Prompt Legal Action

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Sadly, one in four women will experience domestic violence during her lifetime. Each year, 1.3 million women will be victims of physical assault, according to the Alternatives to Domestic Violence organization in Riverside, Calif. California’s domestic violence shelters had more hotline calls in 2010, with an average of 5,261 individuals needing their services and support.

The recession has caused financial and marriage stressors to increase, and victims sometimes feel they have no escape route to improve their life. A recent Orange County domestic violence case emphasizes the need for legal counsel when dealing with divorce, child custody and restraining order concerns. Travis C. Unholz, an Orange County sheriff’s deputy, recently pushed his wife to the floor and she hit her head. The couple’s two children were at home during the argument. The wife called the sheriff’s department and they arrested Unholz. He was able to post bail, was charged with domestic violence, but then tried to buy a gun. He asked a friend to help him buy an automatic weapon, survival kit, and call his wife. All these actions violated the bail conditions.

Unholz now is charged with a litany of felony and misdemeanor charges – domestic battery, violation of a protective order and attempted possession of a firearm, sentencing enhancement for crime-bail-crime – and could face six or more years in state prison.

Every victim of domestic violence has the right to seek legal guidance and court protections to overcome a traumatic situation. If there are children involved, a restraining order can be requested to protect you and the children. Custody, visitation and child support orders can be requested at the same time, as well.

If you have been a victim of domestic violence, you have a right to look to the court for protection. There are several different types of restraining orders that can provide domestic violence victims with this kind of protection. If a judge wants a mediation to decide on these matters, an individual will want to bring their divorce lawyer and a support person. Sometimes it is even best to meet with the mediator separately, depending on what type of abuse has occurred.

Current California statutes call for custody to be granted in line with the best interests of the child. Domestic violence that has been done in the previous five years does not bode well for the perpetrating parent seeking any type of custody. Only if the perpetrator can provide sufficient evidence that he has completed a batterer’s treatment program, an alcohol or drug abuse counseling program, parenting classes, and complied with a restraining order, will the courts perhaps consider joint custody.

One of the most prominent divorce and family law offices, The Maggio Law Firm in Riverside and Irvine, Calif., is skilled in representing a client’s and child’s best interests. Their firm will ensure that all of the proper documents are filed, any questions that a judge might ask will be done so in a quick, proactive manner, and will assist with any unusual circumstances that might come up in the divorce and child custody hearings.

Gerald Maggio, their lead Riverside County domestic violence attorney, recommends individuals get help early on who are being abused. He represents domestic violence victims that are married, have domestic partnerships, in dating relationships, and same-sex partnerships. Their exceptional legal counsel will aggressively advocate for an individual and child’s legal and human rights.

For more information or to schedule a consultation, contact Orange Country divorce lawyer, Gerald A. Maggio, by visiting Maggiolawfirm.com or calling (949) 553-0304.

A Closer Look at Orange County Domestic Violence and Restraining Orders

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If you have been a victim of domestic violence, you have a right to look to the Court for protection. There are several different types of restraining orders that can provide domestic violence victims with this kind of protection.

Being a victim of domestic violence can be a stressful and traumatic ordeal. However, there are legal ways to ease the stress and trauma by ensuring that further harm does not come to the victim. A domestic violence restraining order is a court order that protects a person from being abused or harmed by another person.

To qualify for a Domestic Violence Restraining Order you must have a relationship with the person you are seeking the order against. This relationship must be one of the following:

  • Married Couples (sometime known as Spousal Abuse)
  • Couples who cohabit
  • Persons who have a child or children in common
  • Persons currently in a dating relationship or who were in a former dating relationship
  • Persons who were formerly married to each other

In California, the victims of domestic violence can obtain three different types of restraining orders: an Emergency Protective Order, a Domestic Violence Temporary Restraining Order, or a Criminal Protective Order.

An Emergency Protective Order (EPO) is issued by law enforcement and is only valid for a short amount of time, usually less than one week. This type of restraining order is particularly useful for victims of domestic violence, as it provides them with immediate protection after an incident has occurred. These types of restraining orders usually arise when the police have responded to a domestic violence call.

A Domestic Violence Temporary Restraining Order (TRO) is another short term restraining order valid for no more than 21 days. While these restraining orders only cover a short period of time, they can be made permanent for 1 to 3 years. The purpose of a TRO is to provide the victim with protection until a hearing can be held and a permanent restraining order can be issued.

A Criminal Protective Order can be obtained through the District Attorney’s office and is issued in active domestic violence criminal cases. Under this kind of restraining order, the individual the order is issued against is not to have any contact with the victim.

Each type of restraining order must be court-ordered, so you will have to go to court to prove your domestic violence case. It is important to have an attorney who can represent your best interests. An experienced family law attorney will ensure that all of the proper documents have been filed, will be able to handle any questions a judge might have, and will help you deal with any unusual circumstances that arise.

Gerald A. Maggio is an Orange County divorce attorney, in Irvine, California.   For more information or to schedule a consultation with Orange County divorce lawyer Gerald Maggio, contact The Maggio Law Firm by calling (949) 553-0304 or visiting www.maggiolawfirm.com.

Children Used in Emotional Abuse Ploys

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Sadly, many children are used as pawns in divorce proceedings. Emotional abuse can wreak havoc on them.

Caught up in the throes of divorce, some people don’t stop to think that they may be using their children as emotional pawns; taking their own anger and hurt out on the kids. This is a difficult position for a child to be in; emotionally and psychologically. Those who would abuse a child may find Child Protective services stepping into the picture.

A child is considered to be the victim of emotional/psychological abuse when they are subjected to acts/omissions on the part of the parents, or other responsible caretakers, that caused or could cause serious mental problems, emotional difficulties, behavioral problems or cognitive disorder. Even if there is no harm to a child’s condition or behavior, Child Protective services may still step in.

Unfortunately, there are many types of punishment divorcing parents hand out that may range from the extreme and downright bizarre to less severe actions such as rejecting the child or constantly using them as a scapegoat. The parent is considered to be guilty of emotional abuse if they are unable or unwilling to respond to their child’s needs or rejects them. They are guilty of psychological abuse if the child is witness to spousal abuse, if the child is told they can take drugs or alcohol, or if the parent(s) refuse or fail to offer proper psychological care.

Emotional and psychological abuse takes on other forms as well, such as economic power over another or dependence dominance.  In cases that involve economic power or dominance, the kids are often used to wield power over the other spouse; to control them. Instead of directing their anger at the other spouse, the child is the target of abuse in order to cause the other partner severe distress.

The abuse may take on many forms such as yelling, screaming, shouting, threatening gestures, actions or looks. No matter what it takes to frighten the other spouse, the abuser will do it and use a child for the primary target to get at the spouse. Some abusers have been known to utter threats of taking the child without their knowledge, harming the child, or even making insinuations they would commit suicide.

If you are in an abusive relationship, you do not have to live in fear. There is help available by working with a skilled and compassionate attorney who is familiar with situations like this. Domestic violence must be dealt with promptly and decisively. Do not wait to get help.

If you live in California, you need to understand that domestic violence has a direct impact on child custody disputes. If you are facing a divorce and have been accused of domestic abuse/violence, it is critically important that you do everything possible to prevent a conviction if you wish to retain custody or visitation rights with your children.

Speak to a dedicated attorney who represents men and women who have been victimized by or who have been accused of domestic violence in marriage, domestic partnerships, dating relationships and same-sex partnerships. In trying times, a strong, aggressive advocate is the best ally for individuals involved in domestic violence cases.

Gerald A. Maggio is an Orange County divorce attorney, in Irvine, California. For more information or to schedule a consultation with Orange County divorce lawyer Gerald Maggio, contact The Maggio Law Firm by calling (949) 553-0304 or visiting www.maggiolawfirm.com.

California Stalking Illegal

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Stalking is one of the most frightening behaviors a person may experience. One out of every twelve women and one out of every forty-five men will be stalked at least once during their lives.

Stalking in the 21st century isn’t just what we have come to associate as being the “typical” stalker-like behavior. Now, thanks to the advent of the Internet, there is also a category of stalker referred to as cyber stalkers. It too is illegal, and it is a great deal more difficult to catch and prosecute an online stalker.

The typical definition of a stalker refers to a person who wants to force a relationship on a victim. In most instances, the relationship is not wanted, which is usually the trigger for the stalking behavior; actions that include vandalizing the victim’s property, threatening or harassing the victim, obsessive messaging either by cell phone or online, or obsessive phone calling at all hours of the day and night. Some stalkers define their modus operandi by delivering certain types of gifts that they know will upset their target.

Stalking is one of the most gut-wrenching experiences any man or woman will ever go through. The feeling of fear, loss of control of their lives, the physical stress and anxiety, and the emotional rollercoaster many victims ride while being stalked takes a significant toll on their health and mental well-being. Victims may experience extreme fatigue, depression, intense fear, anger, anxiety, insomnia, PTSD, overwhelming helplessness, and yo-yo weight problems.

In some instances, stalkers don’t realize what they are doing; don’t understand that they are doing something wrong. Their perception is that they are doing something that other person should like and don’t comprehend why their advances are met with such violent reactions. Put another way, they are ignorant as to how their actions affect others. Nonetheless, stalking in California is still illegal. In fact, California was the first state to make stalking a criminal act in 1990.

The rest of the states now have similar laws in place to deal with stalkers, however each state also approaches the definition of a criminal act differently. For instance, some states call stalking illegal only if the stalker endangers or threatens the victim. There are also 13 states that charge the first count of stalking as a misdemeanor and subsequent charges as felonies. It’s best to ask a qualified attorney what laws are applicable to stalkers in your state. Shockingly, every year, there are approximately 2 million felony and 4 million misdemeanor stalking charges.

Gerald A. Maggio is an Orange County divorce attorney, in Irvine, California.  For more information or to schedule a consultation with Orange County divorce lawyer Gerald Maggio, contact The Maggio Law Firm by calling (949) 553-0304 or visiting www.maggiolawfirm.com.

Coercion’s Role in Domestic Violence in California

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If you don’t think coercion plays a role in domestic violence in California, think again. This tactic may cost you your visitation rights with the children.

While many people work hard at their jobs and their relationships with significant others and get ahead on their own merits, there are those who attempt to get ahead by bullying, intimidating and coercing others. Some people may choose to live with this, others ignore it, some tolerate it, and others bear the brunt of it.

Typically, when coercion enters the picture in a personal relationship, it isn’t something that improves communication between the parties. It may in fact find one of the parties charged with criminal threatening and on their way to court and perhaps jail. A skilled Orange County divorce attorney will outline this for you if you have been charged with domestic violence.

Coercion is defined as forcing someone to act in an involuntary manner by threatening the person with bodily harm if they do not comply. What this means is that if the person feels compelled to act in a certain way out of fear, or because they are afraid of being harmed or hurt, that person may choose to file charges against the person trying to coerce them with threats.

Often coercion and criminal intimidation is used in a variety of settings from work to home and from school to social events. It seems to know no boundaries as the aggressor is intent on getting their way at any cost. This kind of violence is more common than we would like to think, particularly in situations where there is a marriage breakdown. This is one of the major reasons that speaking to a seasoned Orange County divorce attorney makes sense. The attorney is able to offer you a variety of options at your disposal to alleviate this situation.

Most often the aggressor is the male and rather than try to calmly and fairly settle a dispute, they use coercion to accomplish their goals. They intentionally make others do what they say by telling them if they don’t, they’ll “pay” for it; meaning they’ll be beaten or forced into doing something else. This type of conduct may spill over to other family members, most notably the children.

If the person uttering the threats and causing serious harm to others is charged, they may face the possibility of misdemeanor or felony charges. In the more serious cases, there may be fines, jail time or probation. While the perpetrator may think it’s no one’s business but their own what they choose to do and how they choose to act, if they are convicted of this type of crime, it will have a direct impact on visitation rights with their children. If you’re in the midst of a divorce proceeding in California, you will need to consult with your Orange County divorce attorney to find out what your options are under the circumstances.

Domestic violence, which includes coercion, has a direct impact on child custody disputes. In fact, California Family Code, Section 3044 states that: “Upon a finding by the court that a party seeking custody of a child has perpetrated domestic violence against the other party seeking custody of the child or against the child or the child’s siblings within the previous five years, there is a rebuttable presumption that an award of sole or joint physical or legal custody of a child to a person who has perpetrated domestic violence is detrimental to the best interest of the child.”

Put another way, if you are facing a divorce and have been accused of domestic violence or coercion, it is vitally important that you do everything possible to prevent a conviction if you wish to retain custody or visitation rights with your children.

Gerald A. Maggio is an Orange County divorce attorney, in Irvine, California.  For more information or to schedule a consultation with Orange County divorce lawyer Gerald Maggio, contact The Maggio Law Firm by calling (949) 553-0304 or visiting www.maggiolawfirm.com.

Domestic Violence May Impact Your Orange County Child Custody Case

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The National Center for Victims reveals that nearly 1.4 million people are stalked every year in the US alone. This may be considered domestic violence during divorce proceedings and may impact on child custody if there is a conviction.

It goes without saying that the number of victims stalked in the US every year is highly unsettling. Unfortunately, in many cases, the victim was not aware they were being stalked until things get out of control. If you have instituted divorce proceedings and find you are being stalked, immediately speak to an Orange County divorce attorney. Generally speaking, women are more likely to be stalked than men; and in most cases, women are being stalked by men whom they were once involved with intimately. This may mean dating, long or short term cohabitation, and even marriage.

Stalking is usually defined as multiple unwanted acts that escalate over a period of time and get more dramatic and more out of control. No one has to put up with stalking and this is where an Orange Country divorce attorney will be able to assist you. There is no reason for you to have to change your lifestyle to feel safe. In many cases, stalking may lead to even more violent crimes such as murder.

While there are several things that you may do to take action in situations such as this, speaking to a highly skilled and empathic Orange County divorce attorney should be the first thing on your list. Find out how you may protect yourself and your children if you feel you are being stalked as a result of a failed cohabitation or marriage.
Aside from speaking to a compassionate divorce attorney with extensive experience in the area of domestic violence, make sure you keep a record of every incident where the person stalking you tries to contact you. This means by any method of communication and includes phone, texts, emails, in-person visits, and other incidents that seem strange and unusual.

Even though you may set boundaries and explicitly tell the person they are making you uncomfortable, they may continue to harass you. You may be able to put some distance between them and you and your children, but if they are dedicated to stalking you for their own reasons, getting them to cease and desist is often difficult. You definitely need to speak to a knowledgeable Orange County divorce attorney to find out what your options and legal remedies are here.

Do not attempt to do anything about the stalking on your own and always tell anyone who may be able to help you about any suspicious activities you have witnessed. This would include speaking to your attorney to apprise him or her of anything untoward or anything that indicates an escalation in the harassment of the stalker. Having been involved with the person, you will have good insight into what they may be doing and why and what they may attempt to do to harm you.

If the stalking incidents are not resolved by a conviction and jail time, and the significant other or spouse has been accused of domestic violence, this will have a direct impact on any child custody disputes.

Domestic violence is simply not tolerated when it comes to the safety and best interests of any children involved in a marital breakup. This is clearly stated in the California Family Code, Section 3044 that outlines “Upon a finding that a party seeking custody of a child has perpetrated domestic violence against the other party seeking custody of the child or against the child or the child’s siblings within the previous five years, there is a rebuttable presumption that an award of sole or joint physical or legal custody of a child to a such a person is detrimental to the best interest of the child.”

Gerald A. Maggio is an Orange County divorce attorney, in Irvine, California.  For more information or to schedule a consultation with Orange County divorce lawyer Gerald Maggio, contact The Maggio Law Firm by calling (949) 553-0304 or visiting www.maggiolawfirm.com.

What is Considered Domestic Violence in California?

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Domestic violence means to hit, kick, scare, throw objects, pull hair, push, follow, harass, stalk, sexually assault, or threaten to do any of these things.

It can also include other actions that make someone afraid of being hurt. Domestic violence can be spoken, written or physical.

For more information or to schedule a consultation, contact Orange County divorce attorney Gerald Maggio of The Maggio Law Firm, by visiting www.maggiolawfirm.com or calling (949) 553-0304.

How Does Domestic Violence Affect My Rights In an Orange County Child Custody Case?

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In Orange County, the Court will consider your case as a domestic violence case if, in the past 5 years,

1. A parent was convicted of domestic violence against the other parent, or

2. Any court has decided that one parent committed domestic violence against the other parent of the children (which means that a court’s previous issuance of a restraining order in your case highly relevant in your custody case).

If the court decides that there was domestic violence in the past five years against a parent or the children, the judge must follow special rules to decide custody of the children.

In particular, pursuant to Family Code Section 3044, if the Court makes such a finding there is a legal presumption that the party who perpetuated the domestic violence should not have sole or joint custody of the parties’ children. Such legal presumption can be overcome and custody awarded to the parent who committed the domestic violence if it is in the best interests of the child, the perpetrator has completed a 52-week batterer’s program, not committed any other domestic violence, and has complied with all other orders of the Court.

The complete text of California Family Code Section 3044 is as follows:

(a) Upon a finding by the court that a party seeking custody of a child has perpetrated domestic violence against the other party seeking custody of the child or against the child or the child’s siblings within the previous five years, there is a rebutable presumption that an award of sole or joint physical or legal custody of a child to a person who has perpetrated domestic vtiolence is detrimental to the best interest of the child, pursuant to Section 3011. This presumption may only be rebutted by a preponderance of the evidence.

(b) In determining whether the presumption set forth in subdivision (a) has been overcome, the court shall consider all of the following factors:

(1) Whether the perpetrator of domestic violence has demonstrated that giving sole or joint physical or legal custody of a child to the perpetrator is in the best interest of the child. In determining the best interest of the child, the preference for frequent and continuing contact with both parents, as set forth in subdivision (b) of Section 3020, or with the noncustodial parent, as set forth in paragraph (1) of subdivision (a) of Section 3040, may not be used to rebut the presumption, in whole or in part.

(2) Whether the perpetrator has successfully completed a batterer’s treatment program that meets the criteria outlined in subdivision (c) of Section 1203.097 of the Penal Code.

(3) Whether the perpetrator has successfully completed a program of alcohol or drug abuse counseling if the court determines that counseling is appropriate.

(4) Whether the perpetrator has successfully completed a parenting class if the court determines the class to be appropriate.

(5) Whether the perpetrator is on probation or parole, and whether he or she has complied with the terms and conditions of probation or parole.

(6) Whether the perpetrator is restrained by a protective order or restraining order, and whether he or she has complied with its terms and conditions.

(7) Whether the perpetrator of domestic violence has committed any further acts of domestic violence.

(c) For purposes of this section, a person has “perpetrated domestic violence” when he or she is found by the court to have intentionally or recklessly caused or attempted to cause bodily injury, or sexual assault, or to have placed a person in reasonable apprehension of imminent serious bodily injury to that person or to another, or to have engaged in any behavior involving, but not limited to, threatening, striking, harassing, destroying personal
property or disturbing the peace of another, for which a court may issue an ex parte order pursuant to Section 6320 to protect the other party seeking custody of the child or to protect the child and the child’s siblings.

(d) (1) For purposes of this section, the requirement of a finding by the court shall be satisfied by, among other things, and not limited to, evidence that a party seeking custody has been convicted within the previous five years, after a trial or a plea of guilty or no contest, of any crime against the other party that comes within the definition of domestic violence contained in Section 6211 and of abuse contained in Section 6203, including, but not limited to, a crime described in subdivision (e) of Section 243 of, or Section 261, 262, 273.5, 422, or 646.9 of, the Penal Code.

(2) The requirement of a finding by the court shall also be satisfied if any court, whether that court hears or has heard the child custody proceedings or not, has made a finding pursuant to subdivision (a) based on conduct occurring within the previous five years.

(e) When a court makes a finding that a party has perpetrated domestic violence, the court may not base its findings solely on conclusions reached by a child custody evaluator or on the recommendation of the Family Court Services staff, but shall consider any relevant, admissible evidence submitted by the parties.

(f) In any custody or restraining order proceeding in which a party has alleged that the other party has perpetrated domestic violence in accordance with the terms of this section, the court shall inform the parties of the existence of this section and shall give them a copy of this section prior to any custody mediation in the case.

For more information or to schedule a consultation, contact Orange County divorce attorney Gerald Maggio of The Maggio Law Firm, by visiting www.maggiolawfirm.com or calling (949) 553-0304.

I Am a Victim of Domestic Violence, What are My Options?

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If you have been a victim of domestic violence, you can seek orders from the Court to protect you from such violence or threats of violence at the hands of a family member or someone you date or live with, by filing a Temporary Restraining Order with the Court.

You can generally obtain an emergency Temporary Restraining Order the same day as requested. Such orders can order the perpetrator of the domestic violence to stay 100 yards away from you, your home, your vehicle and your place of employment. The order can also order the perpetrator to move out of the house temporarily and to not have any contact or communications with you of any kind. Finally, the Court can make temporary orders regarding child custody and visitation of the parties’ children, and payment of bills and child support under the Temporary Restraining Order.

If the Court grants the request for a Temporary Restraining Order, the Court will schedule an Order to Show Cause hearing within 21 days thereafter, and the temporary restraining order will only be effective until the next hearing. The purpose of the Order to Show Cause hearing is to give the perpetrator the right to respond to the allegations and for the Court to determine where the restraining order should be continued for up to five years.

The restrained person must be personally served with a certified copy of the emergency Temporary Restraining Order granted by the Court which provides notice of the Order to Show Cause hearing.

In addition, if you called 911 at the time of the domestic violence incident and the perpetrator was arrested, that person (who can be your husband, wife, boyfriend or girlfriend) might be simultaneously prosecuted for domestic violence criminal charges independent of your restraining order proceeding in Family Court. This should not stop you from seeking a Family Law restraining order.

For more information or to schedule a consultation, contact Orange County divorce attorney Gerald Maggio of The Maggio Law Firm, by visiting www.maggiolawfirm.com or calling (949) 553-0304.