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Survival Strategies for Coping with a Divorce

Top Orange County divorce lawyer; The Maggio Law FirmAfter a tumultuous marriage and a devastating divorce, most of the people find themselves stuck in a perpetual loop of self-loathing and depression. The painful fights, the never ending disagreements and the exhausting court proceedings may leave you scarred for the rest of your life. However, one must not forget that separation is a part of life and it does not imply that their life has ended. There is a life post-divorce, which is full of possibilities and hopes of resurrecting your old self and building a new you. Read on for a few strategies that might help you survive the trauma of a devastating divorce.

Allow yourself to grieve your loss

Grief is the nature’s way to handle the pressure of a loss. The sorrow inside your heart makes its way to the outside through every drop of tear you shed. Divorce involves a loss of companionship, emotional support, and even shared hopes and dreams. The agony of losing someone may wreak havoc to both your mental and physical health. Therefore, it is absolutely essential to drain out all the pain and negativity from your body by allowing yourself to grieve your loss.

Seek outside support from friends and family

When in distress, most of us tend to isolate ourselves and ruminate over our failures and losses. However, staying alone and constantly revisiting old times and related sorrow, would eventually make us more depressed and wound up in the memories of our dark past. Seeking support of your loved ones is critical to the healing of your injured soul. You may reach out to people who would actually listen to you and offer you positive advice. In case you find it difficult to open up with your own family, you may seek outside help of professional counselors or psychologists, who would help you in dealing with your mental crisis.

Take care of yourself and indulge in activities that make you happy

A divorce marks a huge life changing event in your life that divides your life into the ‘before’ and ‘after’ phases. The enormous levels of stress involved in a divorce might leave you devoid of any desire to live or take care of yourself. However, this is the time that both your body and mind demand more attention and care than ever before. Take plenty of rest and try to limit all the other sources of stress in your life. Indulge in hobbies that you might have given up for a long time now. Read a motivational book, go for leisurely walks in the park, join a new baking class or indulge in gardening.

The most important thing to understand here is that life doesn’t end with a divorce, it merely takes a detour.

Getting divorced in California can be complicated.  Download our free eBook, 18 Important Things to Know About California Divorce to educate yourself on the process.

divorce_attorneyGerald A. Maggio is an experienced Orange County divorce and family law attorney and family law attorney located in Irvine, California, serving the Orange County and Riverside areas. Mr. Maggio assists clients with legal issues including divorce, legal separation, divorce mediation, child custody, prenuptial agreements, stepparent adoptions, and other family law issues. Mr. Maggio has practiced law in California since 1999, and founded The Maggio Law Firm in 2005, focusing exclusively on divorce and family law matters.



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